Last week the oncoogist offered us the option of another chemo, one that is more toxic than the one I was on for 18 months. It could prolong a patient's life by a short time, but the side effects could make life much more miserable. So it is a choice between, possibly an extra month with degraded lifestyle, and foregoing any treatment and concentrating on as high a quality of life during that time. The window to begin the treatment would close in two weeks. After that if would be too late to start. So, not to decide is a decision to forego treatment. We also met with a representative of hospice to learn what they have to offer.
We are seeking the Lord to see if He has a word for us, or if there is guidance that we missed somewhere in the past. Annie and I would truly, truly appreciate your prayers as we make this difficult decision.
Again, thank your for your ongoing support and prayers.
-Cal-
Dear Cal,
ReplyDeleteAlan and I are thinking of you as you go through this difficult time. I feel blessed to have been able to spend time with you and Annie in Baltimore over the years. You wouldn't recognize our 15-year-old Garrett anymore!
Please do let us know if there is anything we can do to help you and your family. You're in my prayers.
Suzanne Smith and Alan Uomoto
sjbirder at roadrunner dot com
Cal: Have been praying for you. Will pray for God to clarify to you and Annie what He wants. May His peace reign. ~Susan
ReplyDeleteCal,
ReplyDeleteI'm praying for you and for Annie and your family.
Ron
Praying for and with you and Annie. May God give you clarity and peace in your decision.
ReplyDeleteCal I continue to follow your blog and pray for you. Praying Gods peace and wisdom as you seek His face during this season.
ReplyDeleteCal,
ReplyDeleteYou may not remember me, but I lived in Seattle for a few years and went to Bethany for part of that time. While I'm not sure we ever spoke in person, I still remember how many times your name came up when I spoke with those who knew you. Your impact on them was so profound it gave me a godly jealousy that has caused me to endeavor to do all that I can to make a positive impact in the lives of those around me. I now work for World Relief Tri-Cities, serving our refugees as best as I can. So I can say that, by extension, you have made a profound impact on me as well.
May these small words be of some comfort to you in this difficult hour. And may the Lord of Peace who transcends understanding grant you wisdom and courage to face whatever lies ahead.
Godspeed!